hhdl 2
August 10, 2011
Until you have the inner discipline that brings calmness of mind, external facilities and conditions will never bring the joy and happiness you seek. On the other hand, if you possess this inner quality, calmness of mind, a degree of stability within, even if you lack the various external factors that you would normally require to be happy, it will still be possible to live a happy and joyful life.
– His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama
What if the socially marginalised, council estate-dwelling youth of London had been given an opportunity, in school, to learn this?
hhdl 1
July 18, 2011
Yeah, so trust HHDL to take what I’ve been trying to say for the last few years and nail it in a single paragraph:
We have different degrees of happiness and different kinds of suffering. Material objects give rise to physical happiness, while spiritual development gives rise to mental happiness. Since we experience both physical and mental happiness, we need both material and spiritual development. This is why, for our own good and that of society we need to balance material progress with inner development.
– His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama
having a friendly attitude
July 15, 2011
“Having a friendly attitude means that when you make friends with someone, you accept the neurosis of that friend as well as the sanity of that friend. You accept both extremes of your friend’s basic makeup as resources for friendship. If you make friends with someone because you only like certain parts of that friend, then it is not complete friendship, but partial friendship. So maitri is all-encompassing friendship, friendship which relates with the creativity as well as the destructiveness of nature.”
- Chogyam Trungpa
I have been distressed by the recent polarisation of interracial sentiment in South African society, particularly as described in SAIRR’s statement of 6 April 2010, and galvanised by that statement to help “sensible South Africans to take back the racial middle ground in the country” in order to avoid and oppose violence or violent speech. So I wrote this pledge.
I think a mass pledge could go a long way towards defusing interracial tension, assuaging polarisation and preventing conflict in South Africa. Although the pledge itself is necessarily apolitical, it might also form a common thread of steadfast opposition to any political movements which express polarising sentiments or exhortations to violence and foment those feelings in the populace. It is a pledge made at the level of the individual, not the body politic. It recognises and relies upon the power of the individual’s conscience and best aspirations.
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I recognise the feelings of tension and anger felt between people of different races in South Africa today.
I recognise that nurturing these feelings undermines our mutual best interests and our highest ambitions for ourselves, our communities and our nation.
I recognise my interdependence with all South Africans. I affirm that South Africans of all races and cultures can work together to improve the conditions of our lives and our environment.
Recognising our common humanity, I pledge to relate to all South Africans with compassion and respect and to work with them in an atmosphere of openness and mutual recognition.
I aspire to create a South Africa that is safe and caring for all. Therefore, I personally vow to refrain from violence and from violent speech towards anyone, regardless of their race or culture.
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If you agree with this pledge and also feel that it’s beneficial, please sign the petition. Also, feel free to copy it and post it on your blog, facebook page, or anywhere else you like, or to use your own words to express much the same thing. The more momentum it gains, the more powerful and beneficial it will be.
Starting Essential Education in South Africa
April 8, 2010
Having returned from England where I worked with Essential Education in 2009, I’m starting it up in South Africa.
I’m running two 16 Guidelines courses in Cape Town in May 2010. The first one is at Phakalane in Hout Bay on the 1st and 2nd of May. The second is at the Sufi Temple in Newlands on the 29th and 30th of May.
The aim of Essential Education is to empower children, youth and adults to make a positive difference in the world through developing their innate capacity to be kind and wise, and to live in a way that will bring peace and wellbeing to themselves and the people around them.
This is the ‘essential’ education traditionally passed down from elder to child, teacher to pupil, and in places of worship. In a country beset by economic downturn, racial polarisation, material poverty and violent crime, it is needed more than ever – especially in a fresh, contemporary and universal form that will inspire and draw people together rather than divide them.
The 16 Guidelines is the first initiative of Essential Education. They are a set of practical, straightforward tools for developing happiness and meaning in everyday life. Inspired by a 7th-Century Tibetan text, the Guidelines offer a presentation of universal wisdom which is suitable for people of all ages, cultures and traditions.
To give you an idea of their effectiveness and popularity: since 2006 the 16 Guidelines Introductory Course has been held in 14 countries worldwide, most recently a sell-out tour of four Australian cities. They are currently being used in homes, schools, hospices, drug-rehabilitation centres, prisons and workplaces across five continents.
This is an extraordinary project with a vision spanning many generations, so I’d like to advertise these initial courses in any way possible.
If you’re interested, please drop me a line at patrick.16g@gmail.com or by calling me on 072 361 5801. You can also read or download the flyer for these two courses.
ownership, inheritance and inequality
July 8, 2009
A potentially uncomfortable quote (from 1907) for your contemplation.
The overbearing attitude of the rich and the noble, the unnecessary sufferings of the poor, the over-production of criminals, and suchlike social phenomena, arise from the imperfection of our present social organisation, which is based upon the doctrine of absolute private ownership. People are allowed to amass wealth unlimitedly for their own use and to bequeath it to successors who do not deserve it in any way. And they do not pay regard to the injuries this system may incur upon the general welfare of the community to which they belong, and upon other members individually. The rich might have slaughtered economically, and thus politically and morally, millions of their brethren before they could reach places of social eminence they now occupy and enjoy to its fullest extent. They might have sacrificed hundreds of thousands of victims on the altar of Mammon in order to carry out their vast scheme of self-aggrandisement. And, what is worse, the wealth thus accumulated by an individual is allowed by the law to be handed down to his descendants, who are in a sense the parasitic members of the community. They are privileged to live upon the sweat and blood of others, who know not where to lay their heads, and who are daily succumbing to the heavy burden, not of their free choice, but forced upon them by society.
Let us here closely see into the facts. There is one portion of society that does almost nothing towards the promotion of the general welfare, and there is another portion that, besides carrying the burden not its own, is heroically struggling for bare existence…
— D. T. Suzuki, “Outlines of Mahayana Buddhism”, 1907
prayers at the moronic abyss (a rant)
June 28, 2009
Warning: this blog post has a long first line. That was not it. It could cause eye strain, or you might lose concentration while reading it. If you are susceptible to either of these conditions, please do not take offence that I have written a long first line. Especially, please do not sue me for neglecting to consider those who may be eye- or concentration-impaired. Consult your local lawyer.
Obligatory self-referential humour aside, I wish I had a resellable Michael Jackson album for every time the lamentably litigious and uppity attitude pervading the UK’s public services had made me laugh or sigh or think of something loud and bloody, involving facebrick walls and rifle regiments, that could be done to the grossly-unable-to-think-for-themselves, and the aftermath photographed and framed for posterity and the moral guidance of future generations.
This article (bbc.co.uk) was the latest to evoke these thoughts, along with the growing suspicion that the good people of the world are sinking into a Great Moronic Abyss of Infantile Thought, whence they might never emerge if it means foregoing the insipid paraphernalia of a nanny state. Obviously, it is my duty to arrest this sinking.
NHS trusts have taken a hard line in recent years on doctors and nurses who take the horrendous step of Mentioning Religion. After Nurse Caroline Petrie offered to pray for a patient, she was summarily suspended. (Cue rifle regiment.) Later, she was reinstated. (Rifle regiment, stand down.) Doctors have now asked the British Medical Association whether they may offer to pray for their patients or discuss spiritual issues with them.
Kicker line: “[The Department of Health's Guidance Warning] said that discussing religion could be interpreted as an attempt to convert which could be construed as a form of harassment.”
Hell, yes. The bloody Christians are rampant, I’m telling you. Just the other day I was strolling around the Elephant and Castle when I was attacked without provocation by a septuagenarian nun brandishing hard-cardboard leaflets proclaiming some charity sale. Those things have sharp edges — she could have cut me. I had to fight for my life. I succeeded in wrestling her skeletal frame to the ground, but it occurred to me that it would be only seconds before she caused me untold mental anguish by asking if I’d accepted Jesus. Thank goodness I’d remembered my Pepper Spray. I escaped and ran straight home, where I broke down and wept in the foetal position until sleep overcame me. The moral of the story is you’ve got to be damned careful out there. You never know when someone might harass you by discussing religion or inquiring about your spiritual beliefs. Damned nuns. Get them out of our healthcare systems.
Here ends the sermon.
No, wait, it’s not quite over.
“Christianity is being seen as something that is unhelpful.”
(Naturally, here, religion = Christianity (= rubbish = unhelpful = harassment = lawsuits = policies = rifle regiments).)
Anyway, take it as a given that your hypothetical future author, age 88, post cardiac-arrest with about 7 weeks to live, would deeply appreciate a sincere discussion about life, death, the universe and everything (read: spiritual issues) as he draws ever closer to the profoundly signifant event of his death. If a nonreligious NHS regards death only as something to be postponed and is unable to provide this, he would quite like a chat with a religiously inclined doctor, or whoever is available.
Hopefully it won’t come to that, but if it does and some compassionate soul is inclined to offer to pray for me, I’d really rather they didn’t hesitate for fear of losing their job. And if, at that time, I am a rabid atheist and think Christians are the deluded scum of the earth, hopefully I’ll still have enough sense to reply to their harmless offer, compassionately, in the negative.